The problem with cybering today is, if your partner does not have a web cam or turn his or hers web cam on, your so called friend on the other side can pretend to be anything they would like to be. In some case even pretend to be female when the when in fact they are male. Asking for photo from your so called friend does not help either. It is so easy to download photo's from the net and pretend that is a photo is a photo of themselves. The only way to ensure that U know whom your talking to is to see them on web cam, cams don't lie. If your partner does not have a cam, stick to normal dialog, it doesn't mean because you have chatted ones or twice before that you know that person, some people can pretend to be someone or something they are not for months.